With a random anonymous girl on MSN. Read on...
men need sex and women need affection
agree or not?
haha not really
women need affection
guys need trust and approval
trust and approval
like if a guy feels like his gf accepts him for who he is, and not try to make him change
and trusts him in whatever he does, and approves whatever he does
then he can love better
thats why guys dont like it when girls say "maybe we should ask for directions"
he will feel like the girl dont trust him, like he dont know how to go to that place
pls tell every other girls dat!
guys need love and care and all la
but trust and approval comes first
followed by the rest
do you think thats true
in some way yes its true
can u like go tell every other girl in this world
cuz many girls out there are like, i wana change my guy i wana change my guy yer why he like dat wan this dat...
its like that wan la
and sometimes i wonder den why at the first place u accept him duh
cause guys and girls are diff, you should know
girls think that there's always room for improvement
so sometimes u're lidat also lo hahaha
when they love something, they will try to make it better
i try not to be lor
but it's girl's nature
guys is like if something is fine, don't fix it
it takes training la
girls show their love by offering suggestions and all
but guys "respect" each other by not offering help unless they are asked
two different things
but if a guy feels that his gf loves and accepts him
he himself will try to change himself
like decide to go gym etc
yaaaaaaaa true right
i noticed too
i tell my boy that
and after a while, he wants to diet and all
why u so clever wan
i read a book
at least i learn ok -_-
everyone should read lor
if not they would never understand
girls think that guys should think like them
shud go thru it b4
better than reading it
we all go through it
just dont realize
how bout guys side hmmm
jz now was on the girls side
tell me bout the guys side
what about guys side?
wat should guys do
how guys act generally
well like i said just now, guys offer solution only when they are asked
if you noticed, girls like to complain
esp if they have a bad day
and guys will always try to "fix it"
best thing to do is listen
and try to understand
and just let them talk until puas
when puas, tell them like
"oh you had such a bad day, let me give you a hug"
and the conversation went on and wandered of somewhere else eventually. Anyways, its some common general stuffs/problems among boys and girls/men and women. Started from a statement that i heard previously from someone - "Men look for Sex and Women look for Affection".
From what i think, generally, Men do not look for sex ultimately but YES Women DO look for affection ultimately. In this age where most people insist on equal rights for both females and males, the strong almighty position of the males is really weakening already throughout the years and the more softer side of the males were shown with more females being independent having full control of their own lives.
Being on the side of the male myself, i must say that acceptance and understanding is what i'm looking for, and of course affection as well which involves love and care.
With lotsa girls nowadays who tried very hard to change every bit of their bf nowadays rather than totally accepting them for who they are, i find it pretty funny that why at the first place they would want to be with the guy then. Well of course, no offence to the girls, its something most girls need to go through.
Same goes to the guys, that we need to be a little bit more sensitive, less forgetful, and paying more attention to the girlfriend plus other more stuffs to cover as well being in a relationship. With that saying, i am still in the life-long process of learning. Not an easy lesson but it's definitely a very interesting and rewarding one i must say. =)
and about how this whole blog post was started with the statement :
"Men look for Sex and Women look for Affection".
There's a reason why God put us human as the rulers of the world and not any other living beings on earth and obviously, there's a big difference between dogs and humans. That's if you understand what i'm saying.
*of course, there's always some exception where some people are in a very sick & serious state already getting addicted to it. and i do believe that every single person seeks love ultimately.